So that got me thinking on the definition of grace... and now that I've looked it up for propriety's sake, I'll contemplate it for a while.... after sharing the definition.
grace
noun /grās/
graces, plural
1.
Simple elegance or refinement of movement
§ -
she moved through the water with effortless grace
2.
Courteous goodwill
§ -
at least he has the grace to
admit his debt to her
3.
An attractively polite manner of behaving
§ -
she has all the social graces
4.
(in Christian belief) The free and unmerited favor of God,
as manifested in the salvation of sinners and the bestowal of blessing
5.
A divinely given talent or blessing
§ -
the graces of the
Holy Spirit
6.
The condition or fact of being favored by someone
§ -
he fell from grace because
of drug use at the Olympics
7.
A period officially allowed for payment of a sum due or
for compliance with a law or condition, esp. an extended period granted as a
special favor
§ -
another three days' grace
8.
A short prayer of thanks said before or after a meal
§ -
before dinner the Reverend Newman said grace
9.
Used as forms of description or address for a duke,
duchess, or archbishop
§ -
His Grace, the Duke of Atholl
verb /grās/
graced, past participle; graced, past tense; graces, 3rd person singular present;gracing, present participle
10. Do honor or
credit to (someone or something) by one's presence
§ -
she bowed out from the sport she has graced for two decades
11. (of a person
or thing) Be an attractive presence in or on; adorn
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Yes. All of that. (Thank you,
Google.) That is what I strive to be: a person full of grace in all its forms.
Sure, you may address me as “Her Grace” if you wish (really, please don't)...
It’s not at all appropriate or fitting for me.... Maybe I should start at the
beginning...
"Simple elegance or
refinement of movement"
"An attractively polite
manner of behaving"
"(in Christian belief)
The free and unmerited favor of God, as manifested in the salvation of sinners
and the bestowal of blessing"
"A divinely given talent
or blessing"
We all have our special gifts.
Some of us have more than others. Some of us have more intense gifts than
others. I feel I'm one of those that may have many 'gifts' but at a low
intensity. Hah. I suppose a person's gift is really only truly evident to those
that receive it.
"The condition or fact of
being favored by someone"
"A period officially
allowed for payment of a sum due or for compliance with a law or condition,
esp. an extended period granted as a special favor"
I know this one may not
seem like it applies, but, in its way, it does. We all have these deadlines we
set for ourselves and others. When to pay the bills, to get the laundry done,
for so-and-so to pay back that debt, for your neighbor to return your weed
eater that he borrowed... so on and so forth. I sometimes give myself too
many grace periods, but I want to always allow others at least one period of
grace and not jump straight to indignant anger. This can be oh so hard to do!!!
It tells a lot about the person you're dealing with though. Too many and you
can be taken advantage of, too few and you're unfriendly. Though I may really
need that whateveritis back like yesterday... I'm going to try to give
what'shername another chance to bring it to me tomorrow and have a good
attitude about it while I'm at it. (Note to self: be more cautious about
loaning what'shername your things...)
" A short prayer of
thanks said before or after a meal"
Yes, I pray too. But in
this case, full of grace, to me would be to be full of thanks and to say that
thanks, not just think it.
"Used as forms of
description or address for a duke, duchess, or archbishop"
See above. These people
were addressed this way for a reason: The height of society, they sometimes set
bar the social graces....supposedly.
"Do honor or credit to
(someone or something) by one's presence"
I shall grace you with my
presence.. Hahahahahaha. ok maybe not, but I do wish to do honor and credit to
others while I am with them, most importantly my Sir, who occasionally graces
me with his presence... *snickers*
"(of a person or thing)
Be an attractive presence in or on; adorn"
I suppose for this one, I wish
to grace my Sir. Yep. I want to be an attractive presence in AND on him. Hehe.
In all seriousness, though. I do want to make him proud of me and, I suppose
one could say, grace his feet, for sitting at his feet is where I am my
happiest.
Aaaaaaaand I've rambled on
waaaaaay too long for anyone that reads this, but maybe someone got something
out of it other than me from writing it.
P.S.: The blog where I saw the
image: http://the50sdish.blogspot.com/ .
And it's a good read too!
Thank you for your kind words, Surri. I enjoyed this post. Grace is an antiquated notion, people don't think about it. But it is something I strive for.
ReplyDeleteI especially liked your discussion of grace periods. My problem is that I give too many.