Does any element of BDSM occur
as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it
core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the
submission part)?
Yeah. BDSM is a part of my relationship. E is pretty active in the local kinky community and I
would be if I had more opportunity. Bondage is a yes, I love rope in particular
but I enjoy pretty much any kind of bondage… at least all the types I’ve tried.
Discipline is in there too. Dominance and submission obviously play a big role
in our relationship. Sadomasochism is there as well. So I suppose we have the
whole shebang. hahaha
As far as its importance, I know
that one day I probably won’t be so keen on E purpling my butt with bruises and
that one day he probably won’t be able to. There will be a time when his
fingers can no longer tie the knots and I can no longer kneel or stand still
long enough for him to bind me (that’s an issue already lol!). Despite that, the
Dominance and submission and even discipline, I feel, will remain.
So, some aspects of it are
integral to my submission, but others… time will eventually push them aside. It’s
not all whips and chains and blood and pain, though those are sometimes
included. In that complex acronym there is a way of living, a way of thinking
that is, to me, beautiful and that lasts much longer than the mere moments of pain
or bondage.
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